Party of None
June 24th, 2009 •
Almost 30 years ago Bette Midler sang, “Friends“, to a crowd of scantily clad, horny Manhattan gay boys. And today I say to you, she was right, you’ve got to have friends. Life gets awfully lonely without them. That’s the way I feel anyway. I have work friends, but they all live in California and New York. I have old friends but they all live in Dallas and Fort Worth. I, however, live in Houston now and in Houston I seemingly have none.
The fact that I didn’t have any friends became painfully obvious on New Years Eve, when both Marcus and I let 2008 come and go without even noticing it, both of us sound asleep while other, more popular couples, were out partying the night away, surrounded by their bestest of friends. That week I realized I needed to be more social.
I first met Aiden back in January. I’m in porn, he’s in porn. I play video games, he plays video games. I’m a bottom, he’s a bottom. I have a boyfriend, he has a boyfriend. AND we both live in Houston. It was inevitable that we would eventually meet. Turns out, we make pretty good friends and there’s absolutely no sexual tension between us… unless you throw a double -sided dildo into the equation.
I’m very glad to have Aiden as a friend but one friend is definitely NOT enough. Especially for an insatiable friend-whore like myself. I think its particularly sad that I have over 25,000 “friends” on myspace but only one real life friend in my home town. I want friendS, not a friend, not myspace friends, not online friends, but actual, in the flesh, I’ll hang out with you often, make fun of you when you’re drunk, and I won’t try to get in your pants, FRIENDS. I mean I have met a few people here and there, made a few acquaintances but no one else has really stuck yet.*
So in an attempt to kick my friend making initiative into high gear, I would like to address the gay boys of Houston, TX:
Gay Boys of Houston Texas, If you see me and/or Marcus at a bar, in a park, at a mall, in the bathroom, or anywhere else that we may be, feel free to say hello and strike up a friendly conversation.
BE MY FRIEND!
Can you smell the desperation?
*This statement does not include a person that I will write about at a later date
June 25th, 2009 at 5:37 pm
Hey Mason,
It’s been a long time since i’ve browsed your site,viewing your very steamy hot vids to. I was in a relationship. I am now single,and ready to mingle (so to speak) haha. Honestly, i find alot of the things you like, i like as well. I’m always looking for friends,with benefits is cool,but not searching. I do also live in Houston,and you may not remember,we have chatted awhile back,and never seemed to get around to meeting. Names David,and i know you like to make more new friends here,so i’m offering an awsome friendship. I have no motive,or goal in wanting to meet you, other than being your friend. Although, yes i find you very sexy,cute,and now matter what you said, you are damn good in bed. Well, thats it,i surely hope we can start chatting again soon,and go from there. oh, you got my email,so get with me sometime,and i’ll show you my pics,so that you might remember talking to me. Hugs,
David
June 30th, 2009 at 3:43 pm
In Italy (but I’m sure that it’s the same in the U.States) we say that every friend is a treasure…
So I understand your desire to have more friends but you should consider yourself lucky because in these times it’s rarely have a real Friend…
I think that could be enough just a treasure for a person…to feel rich!
I hope you’ll understand what I mean notwithstanding my bad english!
Keep Happiness!
Henry
July 17th, 2009 at 3:47 am
over here in mexico we call our closest friends: COMPADRES!!!
i myself sometimes got my ego over my head pretending i didnt had the need to have friends but oh when i discoverd my compadre: Miguel.
it was in fact love at first site… he as me is well lol a sleazydrunkwhore as i am. who doesnt care to make a scene or grab hands infront of thousound of poeple as we pretend to be a couple of girly girlfriends gossping in the mall and acting all gay…
i love him he is my bitch but after all he is my compadre… i hope u find more of them…
he recently changed me for a job ¬¬ XD i hope he comes back lol
January 19th, 2010 at 10:05 am
Mason,
Looks like you are having fun… livin’ wide… but… you know in a big way something is missing.
“Friendships” I use to take for granted… easy… no biggie… but it is a very big deal.
I hear what you’re sayin’.. this is not a place to talk about it… drop me an email if you need someone to talk to about this… and share that lonewolf feeling.
ttyl
Bob